Gate 13: The Listener | The Fellowship of Man
Fun Fact: Gate 13 is the gate of the listener and historian. In relationships, this gate makes you a fantastic listener who remembers all the important details, making your partner feel truly heard and valued.
Shadow: Holding Grudges and Resentment. This shadow involves holding onto past hurts and not fully forgiving. In relationships, it can lead to bringing up old issues, which prevents moving forward and healing together.